YOU CANT BUY LOVE, BUT YOU CAN PAY HEAVILY FOR IT

Most of us believe that:

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is? Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.

Who ever said, you can’t buy love,, didn’t know where to shop for it…

It’s a human tendency to relate the word buy to monetary buying that is you pay in cash and buy… but wait….. Before you conclude that buying love is purchasing it by cash we are making a mistake.

Love can be bought, It sells, it’s just that we should know how to buy it and whether the price we are putting for it is worth it or not

When I say you can buy love I mean that in this fast moving world we are selling ourselves everyday right from the time when we try to sell our theories to our parents to convince them that we need something..To the time when we sell ourselves to our company to get us jobs.

Love is bought by selling ourselves but are we paying the right price?is the deal good enough to be true and will I pay heavily for it?  That’s what we need to think. With the time factor playing a role in relationships how many of us have time to indulge in a relationship and come out of it feeling that we paid a heavy price for it. Everyday we see people breaking off a relationship .Heartbroken and proclaiming that they have lost everything and that they so called “paid heavily for it” and within a few days they have found someone else to strike the deal….

Human has started using love as a tool to get out of stress. To share their emotional, physical and sentimental needs we are ready to pay the price of time and compromise with the person, to be with the person are we not buying love. Love isn’t a thing to be compromised on and if we are compromising on it are we not paying a price for it .If we are paying a price for it then in turn we ARE BUYING IT. Cause everything for which we put in a price we are purchasing it.

In earlier times when money was not introduced business still worked on barter system. The same thing applies in this modern day society.

In this SOPHISTICATED world we are not ready to accept that we are buying love hence we take in the help of the barter system to fulfill the unsaid deal the deal doesn’t require us to put pen to paper to complete it it’s a payment we keep making from time to time and we keep enjoying the bond of love till its comfortable for both the parties. Its this simple fact that we are running away from every passing day cause we are civilized we are not the people who buy love .And love is a emotion which cannot be bought that’s what we learnt all our lives hence to support this theory we try different ways to pay for it still telling ourselves that its something everyone has to do in love so that the society doesn’t outcast us. We are not ready to accept the fact that most of the times we are in love we are doing so out of necessity and self requirement. Gone are the days when love used to happen. Now love is BOUGHT. Its bought by finding the target first its like finding a shop first where u might get what u are looking for. And then looking through the available stocks to find the right stuff that u want and then starts the long bargain. Similarly in love we first find the person and then we make the person notice us. Then we work upon a strategy to gain the persons confidence and then if both of us are ready to indulge in the deal called love you both buy it paying with your conformability and privacy letting the other person take in the control of a small part of your life for a duration of time. This duration of time is undecided in most cases can start with a few days to a few months to a lifetime depending on the product u have bought and the service you receive you tend to keep it or change it. ARE we not living in the materialistic world today. We say we pay heavily for it but isn’t the price too less for all the emotional sentimental and physical support we get in return.